Check out this thoughtful Opinion piece from today’s New York Times. As a fan of the comic/writer Louis C.K., I’ve been rooting for him to use the personal and public shame that accompanied women’s accusations of sexual violation as an opening for transformation. After all, that’s the painful opportunity that a personal crisis provides. I’ve so far been disappointed in this talented, flawed, man. Here’s some helpful advice from psychotherapist Avi Klein, who talks about the healing that can happen when men who’ve transgressed address, in the deepest emotional sense, their wrongdoing.