This is a Two-Part Post:
Dave: This illustration gives a picture of how the use of a psychiatric diagnosis and treatment with medication can affect a family’s living over a long range of experience. It demonstrates the cost of characterizing behavior as disease and ignoring the broader unnamed illness of the family. I recommend you keep the philosophical component of your mind turned on as you read the clinical story.
Based on my phone call with the father, I expected a very disturbed, probably manic, young woman. A different Trish arrived from what I expected. Instead of disturbed and chaotic, she was composed and for the most part thoughtful in an appealing way. She was a self-owning young woman who agreed she had been difficult of late. She was annoyed with what she viewed as her parents’ over-reactions. The pediatric neurologist who had taken care of Trish for 12 years sent the clinical records, which began with her diagnosis at age 4.
Those were the medications she quit taking fourteen years later, in October 1998, four months before they came to see me in February 1999. A month before she quit taking the medications her father, an executive in a large corporation, was “down-sized”. He was let go with a six-month severance package. He acted as if it was not a big deal (only a business decision). He felt certain he would soon find a new executive level position. The mother on the other hand, was upset by his nonchalance. She felt that the ship of the family had been torpedoed and was slowly sinking. I found the parents discouraging.
At one point, the parents felt as though I should see Trish alone. I did, for two visits. Trish was thoughtful about herself. Of her friends she said, “I like these people, I am having fun; I never knew how to have fun before. I can see my parents have never been happy. I don’t want to turn out like them.” She was concerned her mother was trapped and didn’t have any friends. She was trying to get her mother connected to the mother of one of her girl friends who lived on a farm. This mother had a wonderful sense of humor, and seemed to enjoy her life. She thought this mother could be a good influence on her own mother. Trish was worried about her parents. She was trying to help her mother grow up a little, to become more of a person. Ultimately, Trish graduated from high school and went away to college.

