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A Mother and Daughter Reunion: It’s Never Too Late

It’s common for people to carry childhood wounds from their parents into adulthood. Sometimes they seek individual therapy for these painful issues. See what happens when the parent becomes part of the therapy.

Marriage: A Contest To See Who Can Drive Each Other Crazy First

Here’s an inside look at what makes marriage both incredibly challenging, and, potentially, the most enriching experience of a lifetime.

Two Types of Problem Husband

Difficult Husbands seem to come in two brands: The Overly-Cautious Guy and the Know-It-All. These guys often look good on the surface, but they can spell trouble in a relationship. Here are some thoughts on what makes these guys tick, and how they inadvertently stand in the way of real intimacy.

How To Help A Self-Destructive Teenager

Teenage “cutting”: Teenagers are often seen in individual therapy for the self-mutilating behavior called “cutting.” Here’s a family therapy approach that stopped the cutting by revealing what was behind her apparent self-destructive behavior.

From A Child’s Perspective: Are My Parents Going To Be OK?

The modern Child Psychiatry perspective is limited to focusing on the child, without including the family culture in which that child lives. This narrow understanding contributes to the child’s isolation. That little person is usually worried about, and trying to help, the parents. No matter how it appears.

For Couples: Healthy & Unhealthy Fighting

Fighting is part of both healthy and unhealthy relationships. But unhealthy fighting looks different Here are two types of couples with unhealthy fighting patterns: The Disconnect and The Immovable Object.

From The School of Life: An Instruction Manual To Oneself

We hope you enjoy this rather charming post from The School of Life. The author, Alain de Botton, illustrates how

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What “Crazy” Kids Can Teach Us

For Amy and Dave, common psychiatric “disorders” are part of relational patterns, usually embedded in the dynamics of the family. You just have to know how to look.

When Sad Becomes Mad

This Family Medicine hospital consultation involved a mute patient who had just had her leg amputated. The hospital staff was angry at her. Then this young doctor took the time to learn what was going on and everything changed.

Caring Relationships Can Help Heal Pain

Check out this Op-Ed from The New York Times by Internal Medicine physician Danielle Ofri. She cites a recent Canadian study which shows that empathic, caring conversation from their physical therapists actually reduced the patients’ pain more than a medical procedure designed to treat their condition.