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One Way To Cure For A Boring Sex Life

Over the years, I’ve seen many couples whose presenting complaint revolves around sex. Usually it’s because the sex is too infrequent, too lackluster, or at the male parter has some kind of sexual dysfunction. (I’ve only seen one case where the complaint was too much sex!) As usual, unless there’s a biological problem, the sexual relationship is embedded in the larger emotional/psychological dance of the couple. Learning about this dance, and how to do some new steps, can change everything.

Affair Repair

Extramarital affairs, that most painful of betrayals, can actually be a catalyst for a couple’s re-birth. But it’s a tricky process, and needs to be handled with care. Here are some tips on how to make it work.

Good Sex For (Male) Dummies

Sexual problems in a relationship, including erectile dysfunction, typically reflect a more subtle dysfunction in the underlying dynamic of the couple. Helping the guy to become less cautious with his wife can be a powerful libido-stimulator

From “The School of Life”: “What Nice Men Don’t Say To Nice Women”

Amy: Here’s a rather provocative post from Alain de Botton’s “School of Life”.  We were a bit ambivalent about posting

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The Energy Of Eroticism: Aging, Compliance and Marriage

“Compliance carries with it a sense of futility for the individual and is associated with the idea that nothing matters, life is not worth living…”